Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Eyes “Windows to the Soul” 1



Our eyes are one of the most important expressions of our body. When we talk to people, our eyes’ non-verbal communication impresses them much more than our words.
First of all; if you want to use your eyes as a weapon, do not forget to make eye contact. A good eye contact makes people trust you. It gives the message of honesty and genuineness. On the contrary, poor eye contact can mean shyness, superiority or lack of interest. Moreover it might indicate that you are trying to conceal your real feelings.
However, you shouldn’t think this eye contact as persistent eye contact or gazing. If you exaggerate eye contact, people would possibly think that you are trying to deceive them. In such situations other people feel uncomfortable. As a result, it makes things worse.
   The other clue of your eyes’ is your blinking. Of course it is normal to blink. Here the problem is whether you blink too often or too little. If you blink too much, it might indicate that you feel uncomfortable or distressed. However, when you blink too little, people will possibly think that you are trying to control your eye movements.



Rubbing eyes is another way of expressing yourself. When you feel uncomfortable, your eyes may water. So, to cover it or your getting bored you rub your eyes.